This sounds a trifle mean, but if you can't seem to get excited about the new fish you've plucked from the sea, get excited about the places you'll go!Most likely, a lot has changed since you last dated. But after the mandatory mourning comes to a close, the only way to truly move on is to meet new people .
Removing any ex-iconography from your home is the first step to moving on.
But while a temporary dry spell can be a welcome change, there will likely come a time when you’re ready to jump back into the swing of things and get some action.
When your time comes, here’s how to kick-start your dating life again, and hopefully find more success this time around. You can talk straight through an entire happy hour with the girls about how hard it is to meet people and how hard you’re trying, but what are you actually doing?
After a string of seemingly endless bad dates, it’s only natural to want to take a break from the romance scene and just chill on your own for a while. If that thought gives you a twinge of some sort, or reminds you that you haven’t put away your laundry for three weeks or that you’re still very hung up on your ex, maybe there are a couple things you could work on. If every single guy you meet seems great until you realize he’s totally obsessive and bizarre, think about why you keep drawing that type. And no, just looking at someone is not considered flirting. If you’re not getting asked out on second dates after what you think to be a good first ones, is it possible that you’re being a little needy/standoffish/confusing/defensive/friend vibe? Kate Ferguson Kate Ferguson is a Los Angeles local and freelance writer for a variety of blog and magazine genres.
You get tired of going out with people and making an effort, and the guys are so lame it practically defies logic. When she's not writing, the UC Davis graduate is focused on pursuits of the entertainment industry, spin class, and hot sauce.