If you are about to date a divorced man, it pays to uncover what his motives are.
Recently divorced men are not getting into the dating scene in order to start a new relationship. They may not always be keen on starting another relationship challenge after going through the trauma of a divorce.
These can be great perks," says licensed psychotherapist Tina B. They're also more "willing to share their feelings and tackle the tough topics," says relationship expert Lori Bizzoco, founder of Cupids "Men who are divorced enjoy companionship that they were familiar with having been married before," says La Pronda, 43, who's dated both never-married and divorced men.
Try to know for example, whether the divorce is already final or is it still going through the process. If you can, try to know the reason for the divorce. Avoid giving more that what you are getting during the date.Dating may not only be limited to singles or the desperate out there.People recently separated or going through a divorce may also be on the dating scene.Next, remember your goal is to get out of court sooner rather than later.If your soon-to-be-ex-wife is taking you to court, chances are you’ll be tempted to act on emotion and draw out the process for as long as possible, but focus more on the business aspect of the situation.